If you are a “Grey’s Anatomy” fan you know that Meredith Grey named Cristina Yang her “person”.
It was a fitting title because Cristina was always there for Meredith. In turn, Meredith was always there for Cristina.
When Cristina moved overseas and left Meredith, it was a heart-breaking episode. They “danced it out” and parted ways.
Think hard. Really hard.
Do you have a “person” in your life ?
Someone that knows your shit better than you ?
Can you rely on them to literally drop everything for you in times of need?
Would they come and get you in the middle of the night if you called them?
Would they comfort you during a break-up, job-loss, death, or when you are you just feeling like “blah”?
If you have someone, then Bravo.
Cherish the relationship and love them hard.
I hear in my office quite often that clients have lost their “person” due to death or change in location.
Life is a constant ebb and flow of energy, and its hard when you lose a constant source of strength that is outside of yourself.
Just know, when one door closes–another opens.
Don’t get me wrong, it’s impossible to replace someone exactly like your former “person”.
Just know that there is someone else usually waiting to take their place.
But, they won’t be exactly the same.
But they will be there at the exact time when you need them the most.
It’s insane how life works.